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Resource · Education · Advocacy

We’re the moms
at the table
when AI gets
built.

A community of parents who refuse to be left out of the most important conversation in our kids’ lives. Written by a mom — for moms.

Mom and kid at a laptop
70%
of U.S. teens have used a generative-AI tool
37%
of parents say they understand what their kids are doing with it
questions worth asking
Every kitchen table
€0
to read along
Always
Why we exist
§ 01

AI is the fastest-moving technology in our lifetime — already changing how our kids learn, how we work, how all of us live. And the safety, research, and advocacy shaping it is happening in rooms with almost no parents in them. We don’t have time to wait for an invitation.

01
Resource

Plain-English essays on the AI tools, headlines, and questions actually showing up at our kitchen tables.

02
Education

Written guides now, video walkthroughs soon, live workshops when you (yes, you) help us get there.

03
Advocacy

Practical things to do this week — at your PTA, your school, your dinner table — to bring parents into the conversation.

§ 03
Learn with us

Today it’s an inbox
and a parent night.
Soon it’s a classroom.

We’re starting small and honest. Here’s exactly what’s available right now — and what’s being built next.

Today
Available nowFree

Virtual parent night for your school

Live, online, friendly intro to AI for parents. We’ll host it for your PTA or community group — or train you to host it yourself. Either way, your school gets a real conversation, not a slide deck.

Available nowFree

Read along on Substack

Every essay, guide, and conversation lands in your inbox. Reply and a real person (Amber) writes back.

Start anytimeSubscribe
Coming soonPaid tier

Live workshops & small-group circles

Once the community is big enough to fill a room, we’ll host live online workshops as part of the paid Substack tier. You get to vote on the first topic.

No prerequisites
No tech bro energy
No "wrong questions"
Free to start
Subscribe on Substack
§ 04
Where this started

One mom. One teen.
One documentary that wouldn’t let go.

Amber McCue, founder of moms&AI
Founder
Amber McCue
Mom · AI enthusiast · cautious optimist

“We were watching an AI documentary together — me and my teen, on the couch. And somewhere in the middle of it I just thought: if we’re not in this conversation, we’ve already lost it.

I’m an avid user of AI. I love what it lets me make, learn, and try. I’m also a mom, watching my kid step into a world that’s going to work in ways nobody — not their teachers, not their counselors, not most of their parents — has fully figured out yet.

Most parents I know feel the same split: excited and uneasy. And the rooms where AI gets shaped? They’re full of brilliant people who, mostly, are not us. I don’t think that’s going to change unless a lot of moms decide it should.

So I’m starting here, small. A Substack. Plain-language essays. A live Kids & AI survey gathering what parents actually want to know. An offer to host a virtual parent night at any school that wants one, with notes anyone can use to run it themselves. No nonprofit (yet). No big org. Just a working title, a real inbox, and an invitation.

If you’ve felt that same split — please come along. We’ll figure it out together.

moms&ai is a DBA of Amber McCue LLC · Built one essay at a time
Is this for you?

If any of these sound like you, you’re already part of this.

01
The optimist who's also worried

You use AI every day and see the upside. You also watch your kid scroll and wonder what we're shipping into their lives without asking.

02
The mom who feels behind

Your kid mentioned something called "ChatGPT" and you nodded along. You'd like to actually understand it — without anyone making you feel small for asking.

03
The parent ready to do something

You're ready to bring this up at your PTA, your school board, your dinner table. You just want a script that doesn't sound alarmist or naïve.

We’ll save a seat at the kitchen table for you. Even if you just want to read along.
Subscribe on Substack
§ 05
Action — Spring 2026

Two small things,
this month.

We’re not running a federal campaign yet — that comes later. Right now, we’re starting where every parent movement starts: in our own kids’ schools, and in honest conversations with each other. Two ways to take part:

  1. 01
    Host a parent night at your school
    We'll run a live virtual session for your PTA or community group — or train you to host it yourself. Available now.
  2. 02
    Take the very first moms&AI survey
    Going out next month. Helps us figure out what to write, teach, and advocate for first.
  3. 03
    Talk about AI at your dinner table
    Sounds tiny. It's not. The conversations between parents and kids are where everything actually changes.
§ 06
Tools we’re looking at

An honest report card.
Updated as we learn.

A starting set of grades on the AI tools showing up in our kids’ lives. We’ll keep adding to this. Tools change; so will the grades.

B-
ChatGPT
Use with care
General assistant
Best-known. Useful for writing feedback, brainstorming, homework support.
Set up parental controls; keep an eye on chat history; talk about hallucinations.
B
Claude
Use with care
General assistant
Strong on long-form thinking and careful answers. Good "study buddy" energy.
No native parental dashboard; same hallucination & over-reliance risks as any LLM.
A
Khanmigo
Recommended
Tutoring
Built for kids by Khan Academy. Transparent, educator-led design.
Costs ~$4/mo; English-first; still maturing.
C
Character.AI
Caution
Chatbot companions
Popular with teens for creative writing and roleplay.
Romantic / parasocial dynamics; age-gate easily bypassed.
B-
Snapchat My AI
Discuss with kid
In-app assistant
Built into the app most teens already have.
Hard to remove without paying; review settings together.
B
Google Gemini
Use with care
In school accounts
Conservative defaults; integrates with school Google Workspace.
Treats minors differently — read the family policy with your kid.
Grades are our take after using each tool as parents. Disagree? Reply to any post and tell us why.
Amber McCue with family
§ 07
About

Started by a mom
who got tired
of waiting.

In 2026, Amber McCue — mom, AI enthusiast, and unsubtle worrier — sat through an AI documentary with her teen and decided she’d waited long enough for someone else to start this conversation.

moms&AI is a community for parents who want to be in the room — understanding the tools, asking better questions, and bringing their voice back to the companies and schools shaping our kids’ future.

The fine print
moms&AI is a DBA of Amber McCue LLC. If a nonprofit makes sense down the road, we’ll set one up properly. Until then we’ll keep our promise in writing: we represent the parent voice honestly — including back to the AI companies themselves.
§ 08
Subscribe

Read along
on Substack.

moms&AI lives on Substack for now. Free reading covers everything we publish. Paid tiers are how we’ll eventually fund live workshops and bigger projects — and they help us know who really wants this thing to grow.

Reply to any post — a real person (Amber) writes back.

Free forever
The Reader
$0
  • Every essay & guide as it goes out
  • The first survey results, in full
  • Reply to any post — Amber writes back
When ready
The Supporter
$7 / mo
  • Everything in The Reader
  • Members-only thread for parent questions
  • Early access to PTA-night materials
Pledge support
Coming once we have enough readers
The Workshop seat
$17 / mo
  • Everything above
  • Live online workshops (small groups)
  • Vote on the topic for the next one
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